Important Questions to Consider Before You Say "I DO"

The wedding day is usually a very happy and celebrated day in a persons life and the major keyword for that day is "I DO" which signifies an agreement to leave your parents and stick to your new partner and that agreement is supposed to be binding for as long as you both are alive.
Every one alive especially women loves to be loved and one way they can be very much assured of your love is when you are ready and willing to take them down the aisle, some times some might accept to marry for the wrong reason and end up regretting their decision and in most cases it leads to seperation or even a divorce. there are some certain things you need to confirm before you go ahead to say i do.
 Things to Consider Before the Agreement:
1.What are The
Core Values of This Person?
Before you make a lasting agreement to anyone, you need to know his or her core values, this values will never change to time everyone has some kind of core value that is central to their personality.  And when push comes to shove, that value is going to be the most important thing in the world to that person. when you find that someones core values does not exactly rhyme with what you want or would be able to cope with for the rest of your life you do not have to go into the relationship or make a lasting commitment with the hope that this person will change with time because he or she will never change.
2.How Well Does This Person Treat People?
For you to be happy in life, you need to marry someone who is caring and can treat you well. before agreeing to marry anyone you need to make sure that he or she will treat you well, but hence you are already in a relationship with this person, they might seem to hide  the real way they behave which might make it difficult for you to know if he or she will eventually treat you well,but i will tell you how to find out. the first thing you need to do is to spend time with this person, then secondly find out how he treats other people he cares less about, like the waiter at the bar, does he scream at them when they seem to delay? does he easily curse people? how does he address people who might be less privileged than him? if he does not treat other pe0 ople well, then when you are married to him its likely you won't be treated well.
3.How Well Do You Communicate With Each Other?
Communication is a vital ingredients in a good relationship, a relationship that lacks good and effective communication will definitely suffer from so much misunderstanding. before you agree to marry anyone, make sure that both of you have good communication. then ask yourself, when there is a misunderstanding how do you resolve it? Sex should never be used to settle misunderstanding and you must make sure you do not settle your misunderstanding with money. lines of communication must always be open, try to find out if your partner is good in communication because its very important to the health of a relationship.
4. Are You People Physically Attracted to Each Other?
physical attraction really is not the main criteria to marry someone but the truth is, you need to be physically attracted to someone, The rule is - make sure that physical attraction is there, but don't get swept away by it.
In conclusion, before you say I DO, you need to make sure that you won't have any reason to later say I DO NOT.the wedding day is a day of celebration and a sweet day, but the marriage is sweeter when there is continuity.